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The Cave Intensive

Where Shame Ends
and Transformation Begins

The Redemption Intensive exists for men who refuse to allow their worst decisions to define who they become.

This work happens in the Cave. The Cave is not comfortable or polished. It can be dark. It can be jagged. And it is not a place for performance. The work done here is not done in bright lights, not for applause, and not for anyone else’s approval.

It is a place for ownership, grief, self-forgiveness, and the rebuilding of integrity. This is not about convincing someone to stay. It is about becoming a man who can be trusted again, regardless of the outcome of the relationship.

What happens in the Cave, doesn't stay in the Cave. It's real. It is not temporary. And it does not fade when the weekend ends.

Who This Is For

  • Men who acknowledge they caused real harm

  • Men who are no longer minimizing or blaming

  • Men willing to sit with discomfort, grief, and accountability

  • Men committed to character-level change, not surface behavior fixes

Who This Is Not For

  • Men still lying or hiding

  • Men blaming their spouse or circumstances

  • Men seeking forgiveness without change

  • Men looking for a spiritual bypass or emotional reset

Highlights

Application for Consideration

Please read carefully before completing this application.

The Redemption Intensive is a 3-day, in-person immersive experience for men who have betrayed their partner and are choosing to take full ownership of who they have been and who they are becoming.

This is not a marriage-saving retreat.
This is not therapy.
This is not a place to justify, explain, or minimize.

This is a space for truth, grief, responsibility, and integrity.

Honest answers matter more than polished ones.

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  • Maximum of 8 men

  •  June 12th-14th  (Friday–Sunday)

  • Phoenix, AZ

  •  Fully immersive, in-person

  •  Private bedroom for each participant

  • Chef-prepared breakfast and dinner provided daily

  • One shared private property

  •  Exact location details provided upon acceptance

  • Coach Bear will be onsite entire weekend

The Cave Intensive is a $4,000 immersive experience.

Payment options are shared after acceptance. All payments must be completed prior to arrival.

Cave Intensive Application

Current relationship status
Married
Separated
Divorced
Dating
Other
Are you applying because my spouse or partner is forcing me to attend.
Yes
No
I understand this intensive is not a guarantee that my relationship will be restored.
Yes
No
I acknowledge that I have caused real harm in my relationship.
Yes
No
Are you able to be fully present for the entire three-day, in-person intensive without leaving early or bringing work distractions?
Yes
No
Are you comfortable being photographed or recorded at various points throughout this intensive for internal documentation or future educational use?
Yes
No
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